Sunday, March 27, 2016

Why I Spank My Wife



This is one of my EP posts.

It's a cliche but I spank my wife for her own good. She benefits from a spanking because;

  1. It is a clear demonstration of how I feel about her misbehavior. 
  2. It reinforces our roles in our marriage. 
  3. After I have spanked her, I am no longer mad at her. 
  4. Making the effort to correct her shows that I love her and that our relationship is important to me. 
My wife doesn't like getting a spanking, and she hates the corner time before. What she would hate even more would be if I stopped caring enough to spank her when needed for her own good and for the good of our marriage.

Welcome EP Refugees

I have had this account for a while as a means to follow other blogs that interested me. The news that the Experience Project will be closing has motivated me to use it as a way to keep in touch with my EP friends and others who support domestic discipline and the spanking of adult women. Please use this post to let me and our friends know about other good DD forums to continue the discussion. If you wish to contact me privately, you may use the email link on this blog's home page.

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Introduction

Hello,

My wife and I have been married for 21 years. We both believe that the husband is called to be the head of the family and that the wife is to obey her husband. Before we were married, I came to the conclusion that women are not naturally obedient. If they are to be obedient, as I believe God requires, their husbands must help them. I help my wife to be obedient by expecting her obedience and by punishing her when she isn't. Her punishment usually includes a spanking on her bare bottom.

My wife does not like being spanked, but she has learned that submitting to punishment is necessary for her to be the obedient, submissive wife she desires to be. Over the years, she has learned to behave and I do not need to spank her very often any more, but it still happens.

We hope that this blog will encourage other couples to grow in their domestic discipline marriages. That requires men to grow in their leadership and their willingness to enforce their family rules. It also requires women to grow in their obedience and submissiveness. Our experience, and that of many others, is that the more you work on these things, the stronger and happier your marriage will be.

Please reply to this and other posts on this blog. I do not want this to be just my thoughts, but a place to safely discuss domestic discipline. I encourage debate and disagreements, but expect commenters to be respectful of others and of  the theme of this blog. I reserve the right to remove comments that are not encouraging and supporting of others.